Polygamy: Beyond Taboos

Mahathir Mohd Rais is the Bersatu Segambut Division Chief of Pribumi Bersatu Malaysia. By Dr Mahathir Mohd Rais

In recent times, the topic of polygamy has ignited a spectrum of opinions and emotions across the nation, unraveling the intricate layers of cultural, religious, and historical complexity that envelop this practice.
Surprisingly, the practice of polygamy, often associated with Islam, has roots that extend far back into the annals of religious history, touching upon figures revered in Judaism, Christianity, and Islam alike. Notably, prophets such as Abraham, Jacob, David, and Solomon are known to have had multiple wives, a fact that is documented across sacred texts like the Torah, the Bible, and the Qur’an.
These accounts present polygamy not as a mere marital arrangement but as a divine blessing, integrated into the very fabric of ancient societies.
In the realm of Hinduism, historical texts and practices showcase instances of polygamy, especially among the echelons of royalty and divine figures depicted in ancient scriptures.
Epic tales like the Mahabharata and Ramayana portray polygamous marriages within the societal and divine orders of their eras.
However, it’s important to note that in contemporary Hindu society, the practice of polygamy is largely influenced by legal standards rather than religious doctrines.
Specifically, Indian law prohibits Hindus from engaging in polygamous marriages, reflecting a significant shift from ancient religious prescriptions to modern legal frameworks.
This legal stance has been pivotal in molding the current societal norms regarding marriage among Hindus.
Turning our gaze toward indigenous cultures, we find that polygamy is practiced for various social, economic, and cultural reasons.
Among the Mormon communities, particularly those practicing fundamentalist interpretations outside the mainstream Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, polygamy is seen as a continuation of early Mormon practices and beliefs.
In African tribes, such as the Maasai of Kenya and Tanzania, polygamy is intertwined with social status and economic sustainability, serving as a means of forging alliances and managing resources.
Similarly, in some Pacific Islander societies, polygamous marriages are part of the cultural heritage, reflecting traditional values and social structures.
The example of King Solomon, as mentioned in Jewish scriptures, famed for his 700 wives and 300 concubines, highlights the role of marriage in ancient diplomatic practices, where women often symbolized the alliances forged between nations.
Similarly, David’s marital unions are portrayed as manifestations of divine favor, underscoring the scriptural legitimization of polygamy among God’s chosen individuals.
Islam’s engagement with the practice of polygamy is marked by an effort to regulate rather than introduce it.
The Qur’an’s directive, highlighting the challenge of ensuring absolute fairness {Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women} (Al-Nisaa’ 4:129) {Marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one.} (An-Nisaa’ 3:3) serves as a profound reflection on the nature of human relationships and the ethical considerations inherent in polygamous unions.
The religion introduces specific guidelines aimed at ensuring fairness and justice among wives, reflecting a broader commitment to ethical principles and the well-being of women.
This approach contrasts with earlier practices, offering a structured framework within which polygamy could be practiced ethically and compassionately, especially in the context of supporting widows and orphans.
As discussions around polygamy persist in contemporary society, the insights gleaned from examining its practice across different cultures and religions, including Islam’s regulatory approach, offer a richer, more nuanced understanding of this complex issue.
Recognizing the diversity of polygamy’s manifestations and the transformations it has undergone—especially in the face of legal and societal changes—can lead to a more informed and empathetic dialogue.
By appreciating the varied contexts in which polygamy exists, we can move beyond taboos and misconceptions, fostering a discourse that respects the intricacies of human cultural and religious practices.

About the author: By Dr.Mahathir Mohd Rais, Perikatan Nasional Federal Territories State Secretary.This is an opinion column. The views and opinions expressed in this article are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of this publication.

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